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The Success in Black and White ® podcast brings you a variety of topics from the lens of an interracial couple. Our ultimate focus is on bridging the gap between racial boundaries; which we discuss through practical topics such as leadership and management strategies, relationship tactics, and the process of personal development.
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Sep 30, 2019
Sep 30, 2019
48 min
In this episode, Darryl brings the HEAT. He talks about the collateral damage that can happen to you when you stay in your comfort zone, and gets downright personal when he talks about a past long-term relationship in which he was stuck in a comfort zone. Trust me (April), you don't want to miss this juicy episode!
Episodes Referenced:
Making Tough Decisions: Click Here
How to Give Productive Feedback: Click Here
How to Take Feedback Like a Champ: Click Here
If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you! You can subscribe here: YouTube Channel
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives. Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
NEW: We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families! Join our community here: Facebook Community
Sep 23, 2019
Sep 23, 2019
43 min
Are you in the driver's seat, making the decisions for your life? Or do you sit in the passenger seat and let circumstances dictate your life? In this episode, we talk about why it's important to have intention and be deliberate in how you achieve your goals.
We also discuss how we have to work around our VERY different personality tendencies when we set intentions or work towards achieving something in our relationship, our business, or as parents. You'll hear how we had to go with the flow when we were expecting our first child, how we meticulously planned for our second child, how we deliberately worked the system for our destination wedding, and our usual tips and takeaways so you can put deliberation and intention into your lives on a daily basis!
If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you! You can subscribe here: YouTube Channel
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives. Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
NEW: We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families! Join our community here: Facebook Community
Sep 16, 2019
Sep 16, 2019
52 min
Back when we found out we were expecting our first child, we realized that not only would it be life-changing, it would also be... work-changing. Because we worked together, we could feel the gossip-mill turning before we ever even announced that we were pregnant (mainly because we hadn't told many people we were even dating... the pregnancy was bound to be a HUGE surprise).
In this episode, we discuss the boundaries we've learned to set surrounding sharing personal information at work. You'll not only get a very personal story from us, but you'll learn how to navigate sharing personal information with colleagues, clients, and customers.
In this episode, we discuss the boundaries we've learned to set surrounding sharing personal information at work. You'll not only get a very personal story from us, but you'll learn how to navigate sharing personal information with colleagues, clients, and customers.
Episodes & Resources Discussed:
Episode 1: The Nitty Gritty
Episode 5: Making Tough Decisions
FREE AFFIRMATIONS CUT-OUTS: Our motivational daily affirmation cards are perfect for aspiring entrepreneurs, goal-crushers and anyone looking to have a kick-ass day, everyday. Grab yours for FREE here: https://www.successinblackandwhite.com/resources
If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you! You can subscribe here: YouTube Channel
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives. Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
NEW: We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families! Join our community here: Facebook Community
Sep 9, 2019
Sep 9, 2019
45 min
Letting your guard down can be scary. So many people will build walls to protect themselves from getting hurt, but then wonder why they aren't successful in their relationships or even in their careers.
Vulnerability is the key to success, because without it, you can't ever begin to build strong relationships with your partner or with coworkers, friends, or family members.
In this episode, we get (*gasp*) vulnerable discussing letting our guards down.
Episodes & Resources Discussed:
Episode: "The Biggest Fears Holding You Back"
FREE GOAL-CRUSHER'S GUIDE & WORKBOOK: Need help setting and achieving goals? Don't worry, we've got your back. We will email you our comprehensive goal-setting workbook that will take you from the beginning (got nothing but feel like you should have goals??) to the end (goals achieved? Great job!). Grab it here: Goal Crusher Guide
If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you! You can subscribe here: YouTube Channel
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives. Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
NEW: We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families! Join our community here: Facebook Community
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Sep 2, 2019
Sep 2, 2019
43 min
Validation is a necessary part of life. We use validation every time we look up Yelp's "Top 10 Restaurants" while we're traveling. We require validation to ensure that we are doing a good job at work. However, validation can go too far when we start to rely on it in order to feel like we have worth. The things that other people think of us shouldn't dictate how we feel about ourselves or our behaviors, but they often do.
In this episode, we discuss the concept of validation, the harm it can have, and our tips for getting over needing validation from others in order to feel worthwhile.
Episodes & Resources Discussed:
Episode: "How to Give Feedback"
Episode: "Leading Down- Part I"
Episode: "Leading Down- Part II"
FREE LEVEL-UP WORKSHEETS: We've taken sections of our success coaching manual and couples coaching workbooks and tailored them to our episodes! Check out our Level-Up portal for exclusive access to our free self-development content! "Level Up Portal"
If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you! You can subscribe here: YouTube Channel
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives. Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
NEW: We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families! Join our community here: Facebook Community
Aug 26, 2019
Aug 26, 2019
45 min
In this episode, we tackle a heavy topic: the fears that hold us back from success. We talk about:
1. The Fear of Inadequacy
2. The Fear of Failure
3. The Fear of Losing Control
4. The Fear of Judgment
We talk through the ways to overcome these common fears; trust me, you don't want to miss it!
1. The Fear of Inadequacy
2. The Fear of Failure
3. The Fear of Losing Control
4. The Fear of Judgment
We talk through the ways to overcome these common fears; trust me, you don't want to miss it!
Episodes & Resources Discussed:
"How to Bounce Back": Episode 36- How to Rebound from a Mistake
FREE Affirmation Cards: Verbal affirmations are a powerful tool to help you achieve success. Our free printable affirmation cut-outs are small enough you can post anywhere or take them with you when you need some motivation! https://www.successinblackandwhite.com/resources
If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you! You can subscribe here: YouTube Channel
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives. Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
NEW: We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families! Join our community here: Facebook Community
Aug 19, 2019
Aug 19, 2019
42 min
One of the questions we get ALL THE TIME is "how do you continue to work together, be successful, and not hate each other??"
Honestly, it takes work. It's easier to "let things go" that will later bubble up into resentment than to have the hard conversation right away. It's easier to sit around and watch TV than to spend time together day-in-and-day-out working on your relationship or towards a shared goal. It's easier to just do parenting your way and expect your partner to jump on-board than to have some of those harder conversations up-front.
But- we've committed to not only having a good life together, but to having an extraordinary life together. In this episode, we give your our 4 tips to ensure that you are successful as a couple.
Honestly, it takes work. It's easier to "let things go" that will later bubble up into resentment than to have the hard conversation right away. It's easier to sit around and watch TV than to spend time together day-in-and-day-out working on your relationship or towards a shared goal. It's easier to just do parenting your way and expect your partner to jump on-board than to have some of those harder conversations up-front.
But- we've committed to not only having a good life together, but to having an extraordinary life together. In this episode, we give your our 4 tips to ensure that you are successful as a couple.
Resource Mentioned:
Download your FREE Goal-Crusher's Guide! This in-depth, 7-page workbook will help you determine your goals and create action steps to achieve them: successinblackandwhite.com/goalcrushers
If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you! Closed Captioning available. You can subscribe here: YouTube Channel - Success In Black and White.
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives. Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
NEW: We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families! Join our community here: Facebook Group
Aug 13, 2019
Aug 13, 2019
39 min
Ever been passed up for a promotion or a raise at work? Ever been passed up for a project? Ever felt like you weren't getting what you needed from your partner in your relationship? Ever just feel like you AREN'T BEING HEARD? In this episode, we are discussing strategies you can use when advocating for yourself in your various relationships- romantic relationships, familial relationships, and work relationships.
Resources mentioned:
Jocko Willink podcast: http://jockopodcast.com/
Level Up Your Confidence Game: Episode 41 - Level Up Your Confidence Game
If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you! Closed Captioning available. You can subscribe here: YouTube Channel - Success In Black and White.
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives. Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
NEW: We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families! Join our community here: Facebook Group
Aug 6, 2019
Aug 6, 2019
53 min
"Can he just help me with the dishes for once?"
"Can she stop slamming cupboards in there...what is wrong with her??! "
In this episode, you're getting the insiders view into our relationship roles; the struggles we've had defining them; and how we finally were able to bring peace to our relationship by supporting each other in the most mundane things there are in life: household chores.
Episodes mentioned: "Communication Episodes"
Success in Black and White episode 34: How to Give Productive Feedback
Success in Black and White episode 35: How to Take Feedback Like a Champ
If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you! Closed Captioning available. You can subscribe here: YouTube Channel - Success In Black and White.
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives. Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
NEW: We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families! Join our community here: Facebook Group
Jul 30, 2019
Jul 30, 2019
52 min
Some people just seem to have it all together, don't they? They kill it in their business, their marriage is all romance and fun, their kids are well-behaved and participate in EVERYTHING, they find time to exercise and grab coffee with their friends, and they do it all with supreme self-confidence. Meanwhile, the rest of us mortals can take a hit to our confidence levels when we don't finish a project at work, our kids scream in the car the entire ride home from school, and we just haven't exercised in 2 (ahem, 3) weeks.
Because self-confidence is tied to success, we took this episode to provide some tangible ways for you to build your confidence. We also explore the thin line between self-confidence and ego, and the effects of ego on success.
Episodes mentioned:
Oprah's Super Soul Conversations: Oprah on the False Power of Ego
Ed Mylett Show: A Mental Health Homerun with Aubrey Huff
Success in Black and White: Surviving Transitions: Surviving Transitions
If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you! You can subscribe here: YouTube Channel - Success In Black and White
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives. Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
NEW: We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families! Join our community here: Facebook Group