![43: Don’t Be Scared… Speak Up For Yourself]()
August 13, 2019
Ever been passed up for a promotion or a raise at work? Ever been passed up for a project? Ever felt like you weren't getting what you needed from your partner in your relationship? Ever just feel like you AREN'T BEING HEARD? In this episode, we are discussing strategies you can use when advocating for yourself in your various relationships- romantic relationships, familial relationships, and work relationships.
Resources mentioned:
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![42: It’s Your Job To Do The Dishes]()
August 6, 2019
"Can he just help me with the dishes for once?"
"Can she stop slamming cupboards in there...what is wrong with her??! "
In this episode, you're getting the insiders view into our relationship roles; the struggles we've had defining them; and how we finally were able to bring peace to our relationship by supporting each other in the most mundane things there are in life: household chores.
Episodes mentioned: "Communication Episodes"
Success in Black and White episode 34: How to Give Productive Feedback
Success in Black and White episode 35: How to Take Feedback Like a Champ
If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you! Closed Captioning available. You can subscribe here:
YouTube Channel - Success In Black and White.
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives. Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
NEW: We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families! Join our community here: Facebook Group
![41: Level Up Your Confidence Game]()
July 30, 2019
Some people just seem to have it all together, don't they? They kill it in their business, their marriage is all romance and fun, their kids are well-behaved and participate in EVERYTHING, they find time to exercise and grab coffee with their friends, and they do it all with supreme self-confidence. Meanwhile, the rest of us mortals can take a hit to our confidence levels when we don't finish a project at work, our kids scream in the car the entire ride home from school, and we just haven't exercised in 2 (ahem, 3) weeks.
Because self-confidence is tied to success, we took this episode to provide some tangible ways for you to build your confidence. We also explore the thin line between self-confidence and ego, and the effects of ego on success.
Episodes mentioned:
If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you! You can subscribe here:
YouTube Channel - Success In Black and White
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives. Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
NEW: We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families! Join our community here: Facebook Group
![40: She Touched Me… But It Wasn’t My Fault]()
July 23, 2019
You know that feeling when someone touches your partner RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU??
Well, I do (April speaking here).
So on our special anniversary edition of the podcast (happy July 23rd anniversary to us!), Darryl and I talk about a couple of different scenarios: one happened to our friends and one happened when a bold, brazen lady put her hands on Darryl.
Trust me, you really don't want to miss this episode.
If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you! Closed Captioning (CC) available for hearing impaired. You can subscribe here:
YouTube Channel
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives. Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
NEW: We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families! Join our community here: Facebook Group
![39: Embrace The Moment]()
July 16, 2019
The other night I (April) was making dinner when Darryl called over to me to come watch the kids dance to a Beyonce song. "Hurry, this is so cute," he said. "Just a minute!" I yelled, trying to hurry the stir-fry on the stove through the last minute until it was done, not wanting it to burn. I set down my spatula and peeked out to the living room where of course, I had missed the cute dancing moment. As I held Von that night, I felt guilt and remorse for having missed a precious moment that I knew I'd never get back.
This week, we talk about learning how to embrace the moment. From parent guilt to letting other people hold us back from our business, to those times we've let each other drag us back into our past; we discuss times we've lived well in the moment and the times we've (regrettably) let moments pass us by.
Episodes mentioned:
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives. Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
NEW: We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families! Join our community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/325848578316687/
June 25, 2019
Mistakes. They happen to all of us. In this episode, we get REAL about a mistake we both made and how we had to overcome it. You'll get tips on how to overcome mistakes so that you aren't left wallowing in self-pity or finding yourself making the same mistake over and over again.
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives. Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
June 18, 2019
Do you get defensive when you get feedback? So do I (April speaking here). Most people do, so in this episode, we talk about a situation that happened to us the day before we recorded (a "crucial discussion" that occurred between the two of us) and how we were able to resolve our conflict in LESS THAN 1 HOUR- with action plans and everything. Here are the tips you'll hear about so you can take feedback like a champ!
1. Listen to Understand
2. Don't get Defensive
3. Ask Questions for Clarity
4. Make Your Action Plans to Resolve the Situation
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives. Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
