Success In Black And White - The Podcast
52: 1 Year In The Books

52: 1 Year In The Books

October 14, 2019
We have been doing this for a YEAR!! One full year, 52 weeks! And that is all due to you, our listeners! 

This week, we want to say THANK YOU for tuning in every week with us. 

In this week's episode, we took a walk down memory lane and revisited some of our favorite episodes.  Check out each of the episodes we revisit:

 
Episode 1: The Nitty Gritty
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you! Closed Captioning available. You can subscribe here: YouTube Channel - Success In Black and White.
 
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives.  Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.

NEW:  We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families!  Join our community here: Facebook Group

 
51: Have You Defined Your Values?

51: Have You Defined Your Values?

October 7, 2019

"Last night, we were supposed to record this episode.  Instead, we had to have a long, heart-to-heart conversation about something that was bothering Darryl:  really laying out our family values for ourselves and our children."

See, we've been down this road.  We lead values-based workshops, we've determined and set our own values for ourselves and our relationship; yet, we realized that we really needed to set them for our family. 

In this episode, we talk about HOW we do this in our workshops (even grab a FREE copy of the values elimination sheet we're talking about in our Level-Up Portal - HERE) and Darryl talks about his used-to-be-very-lucrative-nightlife working in the clubs and how that's changed now that he's a family man.

If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you!  You can subscribe here: YouTube Channel
 
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives.  Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
 
NEW:  We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families!  Join our community here: Facebook Community
 
50: It’s Okay To Step Out On Your Comfort Zone

50: It’s Okay To Step Out On Your Comfort Zone

September 30, 2019
 
In this episode, Darryl brings the HEAT.  He talks about the collateral damage that can happen to you when you stay in your comfort zone, and gets downright personal when he talks about a past long-term relationship in which he was stuck in a comfort zone.  Trust me (April), you don't want to miss this juicy episode!
 
Episodes Referenced:
Making Tough Decisions: Click Here
 
How to Give Productive Feedback: Click Here 
 
How to Take Feedback Like a Champ: Click Here 
 
If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you!  You can subscribe here: YouTube Channel
 
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives.  Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
 
NEW:  We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families!  Join our community here: Facebook Community 
 
49: Go After What You Want

49: Go After What You Want

September 23, 2019
Are you in the driver's seat, making the decisions for your life?  Or do you sit in the passenger seat and let circumstances dictate your life? In this episode, we talk about why it's important to have intention and be deliberate in how you achieve your goals.
 
We also discuss how we have to work around our VERY different personality tendencies when we set intentions or work towards achieving something in our relationship, our business, or as parents.  You'll hear how we had to go with the flow when we were expecting our first child, how we meticulously planned for our second child, how we deliberately worked the system for our destination wedding, and our usual tips and takeaways so you can put deliberation and intention into your lives on a daily basis!
 
If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you!  You can subscribe here: YouTube Channel
 
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives.  Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
 
NEW:  We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families!  Join our community here: Facebook Community 
 
48: Setting Boundaries When Sharing Information

48: Setting Boundaries When Sharing Information

September 16, 2019
Back when we found out we were expecting our first child, we realized that not only would it be life-changing, it would also be... work-changing.  Because we worked together, we could feel the gossip-mill turning before we ever even announced that we were pregnant (mainly because we hadn't told many people we were even dating... the pregnancy was bound to be a HUGE surprise). 

In this episode, we discuss the boundaries we've learned to set surrounding sharing personal information at work.  You'll not only get a very personal story from us, but you'll learn how to navigate sharing personal information with colleagues, clients, and customers. 

 
Episodes & Resources Discussed:
 
Episode 1: The Nitty Gritty
 
FREE AFFIRMATIONS CUT-OUTS:   Our motivational daily affirmation cards are perfect for aspiring entrepreneurs, goal-crushers and anyone looking to have a kick-ass day, everyday. Grab yours for FREE here: https://www.successinblackandwhite.com/resources
 
If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you!  You can subscribe here: YouTube Channel
 
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives.  Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
 
NEW:  We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families!  Join our community here: Facebook Community 
 
 
47: It’s Okay To Let Your Guard Down

47: It’s Okay To Let Your Guard Down

September 9, 2019
Letting your guard down can be scary.  So many people will build walls to protect themselves from getting hurt, but then wonder why they aren't successful in their relationships or even in their careers. 
Vulnerability is the key to success, because without it, you can't ever begin to build strong relationships with your partner or with coworkers, friends, or family members. 

In this episode, we get (*gasp*) vulnerable discussing letting our guards down. 

 
Episodes & Resources Discussed:
 
 
FREE GOAL-CRUSHER'S GUIDE & WORKBOOK:  Need help setting and achieving goals?  Don't worry, we've got your back.  We will email you our comprehensive goal-setting workbook that will take you from the beginning (got nothing but feel like you should have goals??) to the end (goals achieved?  Great job!).  Grab it here: Goal Crusher Guide
 
If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you!  You can subscribe here: YouTube Channel
 
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives.  Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
 
NEW:  We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families!  Join our community here: Facebook Community 
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46: Let Me Validate Ya

46: Let Me Validate Ya

September 2, 2019
Validation is a necessary part of life.  We use validation every time we look up Yelp's "Top 10 Restaurants" while we're traveling.  We require validation to ensure that we are doing a good job at work.  However, validation can go too far when we start to rely on it in order to feel like we have worth.  The things that other people think of us shouldn't dictate how we feel about ourselves or our behaviors, but they often do.  
 
In this episode, we discuss the concept of validation, the harm it can have, and our tips for getting over needing validation from others in order to feel worthwhile. 
 
Episodes & Resources Discussed:
 
 
 
 
FREE LEVEL-UP WORKSHEETS:  We've taken sections of our success coaching manual and couples coaching workbooks and tailored them to our episodes! Check out our Level-Up portal for exclusive access to our free self-development content! "Level Up Portal"
 
 
If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you!  You can subscribe here: YouTube Channel
 
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives.  Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
 
NEW:  We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families!  Join our community here: Facebook Community 
 
 
45: The Biggest Fears Holding You Back

45: The Biggest Fears Holding You Back

August 26, 2019
In this episode, we tackle a heavy topic:  the fears that hold us back from success.  We talk about:

1. The Fear of Inadequacy
2. The Fear of Failure
3. The Fear of Losing Control
4. The Fear of Judgment

We talk through the ways to overcome these common fears; trust me, you don't want to miss it! 

 
Episodes & Resources Discussed:
 
 
 
 
 
FREE Affirmation Cards: Verbal affirmations are a powerful tool to help you achieve success.  Our free printable affirmation cut-outs are small enough you can post anywhere or take them with you when you need some motivation! https://www.successinblackandwhite.com/resources
 
If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you!  You can subscribe here: YouTube Channel
 
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives.  Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.
 
NEW:  We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families!  Join our community here: Facebook Community 
 
 
 
 
44: How We’re Successful As A Couple

44: How We’re Successful As A Couple

August 19, 2019
One of the questions we get ALL THE TIME is "how do you continue to work together, be successful, and not hate each other??" 

Honestly, it takes work.  It's easier to "let things go" that will later bubble up into resentment than to have the hard conversation right away.  It's easier to sit around and watch TV than to spend time together day-in-and-day-out working on your relationship or towards a shared goal.  It's easier to just do parenting your way and expect your partner to jump on-board than to have some of those harder conversations up-front.

But- we've committed to not only having a good life together, but to having an extraordinary life together.  In this episode, we give your our 4 tips to ensure that you are successful as a couple. 

 
Resource Mentioned: 
Download your FREE Goal-Crusher's Guide! This in-depth, 7-page workbook will help you determine your goals and create action steps to achieve them: successinblackandwhite.com/goalcrushers
 
If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you! Closed Captioning available. You can subscribe here: YouTube Channel - Success In Black and White.
 
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives.  Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.

NEW:  We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families!  Join our community here: Facebook Group

43: Don’t Be Scared… Speak Up For Yourself

43: Don’t Be Scared… Speak Up For Yourself

August 13, 2019
Ever been passed up for a promotion or a raise at work? Ever been passed up for a project? Ever felt like you weren't getting what you needed from your partner in your relationship? Ever just feel like you AREN'T BEING HEARD? In this episode, we are discussing strategies you can use when advocating for yourself in your various relationships- romantic relationships, familial relationships, and work relationships.  
 
Resources mentioned:
 
Jocko Willink podcast: http://jockopodcast.com/
 
Level Up Your Confidence Game: Episode 41 - Level Up Your Confidence Game
 
If you prefer to watch rather than just listen, subscribe to our YouTube channel NOW! We started recording full episodes and you'll be able to watch us interact with each other and with you! Closed Captioning available. You can subscribe here: YouTube Channel - Success In Black and White.
 
Don't forget to follow us via social media for more motivation, leadership & success tips, and a view into our everyday lives.  Darryl: @iamdarryllovett on all platforms; April: @aprildawnlovett on all platforms.

NEW:  We've create an online community for interracial couples and multiracial families!  Join our community here: Facebook Group